Sunday, June 10, 2012

Sunday, June 10th

As another week comes to an end we reflect on the remarkable progress that Mom has made over the last 24 days. We are continually impressed by the small steps that she takes and we marvel at the strength she shows when making even the smallest of movements.

While Mom has been in the hospital we have realized just how much she does to keep our family functioning smoothly. It seemed like she always had endless energy to serve those around her. She rarely missed sporting events, choir concerts, service projects, plays, (special shout out to Todd and his 8th grade production of Kilroy was Here), graduations, parties and many other worthwhile activities. Even with all the bouncing around between events she still woke up at 5am with all of us to make us breakfast and wish us well at the start of each new day. I know that this has been preparation for the journey she is currently on. If anyone has the strength, fortitude, stamina, and positive attitude to pull through, it's our Mom.
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My siblings and I have collectively made a decision to ensure that at least one of us is with Mom every day. My Dad certainly can't go a day without seeing his sweetheart, but we wanted to make sure her children were there on a daily basis as well.  We look forward to the nightly phone calls from one another updating us on Mom's latest progress. It has had a profound impact on our family. We have always been extremely close, but the accident has unified and strengthened us in ways I never could have imagined. My dad has always called Mom the glue that keeps the family together. Even while she is in a coma she still manages to do so.

Mom continues to progress in small increments. We recognize these as small miracles and look forward to the day when she wakes up. The doctors are hoping to move her to the Rehabilitation Institute of Chicago in the near future, but want to wait until they don’t have to suction her airways anymore. She continues to look better with each new day. With her new chic haircut, pink finger nail polish, and white gloves, she looks as pretty and stylish as ever.

Later this week, Zach and I will be driving out to Utah to get him settled in before he starts college at BYU in Provo, Utah. I’m sure Zach would have preferred to make the trek with Mom and Dad, but I will do my best to supply him with the freshman survival staples: lots of peanut butter, flip flops for the shower, and the many other things Mom would have made sure he had. We are so proud of Zach and the young man he has become and we are excited for him to start this new chapter in his life.

I know it has been said many times before, but we sincerely thank you for all of your prayers and support. We read your comments and feel of your love each day. It is a great source of strength to know that we have all of you praying on our Mother's behalf. We love you all!

Tyler

5 comments:

  1. Went to the Manhattan NY temple this weekend and put your names in there, too. Keeping you all in my prayers, and appreciate your efforts to keep us updated. Your mom has always been one of the obviously great ones. Thanks again for all the care you're giving her! ♥
    ~Julia Wright

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  2. I pray for our sons and my wife every single day-EVERYDAY. Prayer covers us. Prayer comforts us. Prayer Gives us peace. Prayers are answered. I NEVER miss a day without praying for them.

    Since Mrs. Labrums acident, I have now added a fourth person for whom I ask The Father to watch each day without fail, along with our sons and my wife.

    If I do this, why state it publically? The reasons are that prayer:
    Covers,
    Comforts,
    Gives us peace, and,
    Prayers are heard and answered.

    It gives me peace that in a small way, I'm being obedient to The Father, as He tells us He hears our prayers. He can't hear what isn't done, so I ask Him. I pray to Him daily for Mrs. Labrum, my wife and our sons. I will pray tomorrow and the next days.

    I read of young Mr. Labrum, as he is about to begin his journey at college. His courage and bravery are certainly to be commended. This is yet another testament to who Mrs. Labrum is. She and Mr. Labrum have certainly raised their children to lean on their faith and each other. That support, comfort and stability which comes from their deep faith in The Father and on each other is the rock which obviously anchors Zach and the rest.

    Peace.

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  3. You are all in our prayers!! Make sure Zach knows where the Creamery is, nothing like Peanut Butter Cup ice cream!

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  4. Zach.....gma's brownies are waiting for you! Our house is your house whenever you need a break or change of scenery and even a hug!
    Love Aunt Julie

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  5. Zach,I hope you have a fabulous experience at BYU! I know your mom wants that for you! Jessica tells me all the time what a terrific kid you are. I have great memories of that day you spent with us in the city when we rode the train, the water taxi, saw The Bean, walked down Michigan Avenue, and ate at Pot Bellies! YUM!

    You're the best, Zach! Have a fabulous freshman year!

    Pam Anderson

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